Do Cats Lick out of Affection?

Cats show their affection in different ways. A lingering body leanagainst your leg, a cuddle in your lap as you read the paper, a heart-warmingcheek rub -- these are all ways that our furry felines let us know we’ve got theirstamp of approval. But what about licking? If you’ve been licked by a cat,you’ve probably been surprised by the rough texture of a cat’s tongue. It mightbe bubblegum pink and adorably tiny, but a feline’s tongue contains papillae,which feel like sandpaper and help cats properly groom themselves andeffectively remove meat from bones. 

So why is your four-legged friend repeatedly licking you? For one,they lick to form and strengthen bonds. Allogrooming, a behavior in cats and othersocial animals, creates a familiar group scent, reinforces the relationship andsocial connection between members and (bonus!) keeps everyone in tip top shape.“I usually take my cats’ licking as a compliment,” states certified felinebehavior consultant Marci Koski, who explains that a licking cat with relaxedbody language like kneading or nuzzling is generally a sign of a calm andcontent feline. They could also be tasting something unfamiliar that spilled onyour arm, having a moment of affection, or requesting your attention. Ofcourse, compulsive self-licking could be a sign of an anxious kitty -- especiallyif you notice thinning or bald spots -- and should be addressed with yourveterinarian. The takeaway? Social grooming by licking is a key felinebehavior indicative of affection between cats and between cats and humans.